It is funny when people fall, but they do not get hurt. In this relation, I have had several falls, and I appreciate that they had been fun. My most memorable fall was when I perceived a house to be haunted, and so I was running out of it. Just before I managed to exit the house, I tripped on someone who was just exiting. I splayed out of the house for every individual to see. Falling in the presence of people can be embarrassing in most occasions. In my case, I fell and must admit that I develop feelings of anger. Falling on bare ground was so funny that my friends could barely talk. They were laughing at me, and I could feel the developing anger within me.After some time, the odd aspect of an individual falling runs out.
Later on, my friend asked me if I were okay. I could not say I was all right because I did not love the fun of swimming on bare ground. Although having minor scratches; I must admit that my friends enjoyed the scene of me swimming on the ground, especially on my belly. I remember that I almost lost my incisors at that moment, but my elbow suffered the effect of the scratches. In this regard, falling at that moment still rings in my mind. I cannot possibly forget the experience that I had that time with my friend laughing so loud. I do not wish an embarrassing fall on a different person, and if I were told by my sons that they fell at school, I would understand how humiliating that experience could be. This is because I had the same experience and can imagine how my son could feel falling in front of everyone.
Concepts Related to the Experience
The idea of defense mechanism is developed from the interplay between the conscious and the unconscious minds. In a relation, the self-concept provides a unique framework for making sense out of experiences. As a result of the defense mechanism concept, individuals can be different from themselves the right or wrong, acceptable and the unacceptable. Individuals might not be able to accept the aggressive impulses, which they experience. My friend asked me if I were okay and I declined. In this regard, a decline that I was okay shows the defense mechanism of being laughed at.
Boundaries are the psychodynamics of an individual’s system, and they reveal themselves about the concept of boundaries. The psychological boundaries are existent in the sense that they are factors that impede communication about an individual’s feeling. Boundaries challenges could be related to the unconscious form of communications that show some significant information about individuals. Concerning my experience, the boundaries concept is related in the sense that my falling could be associated with a condition. This could be confirmed through successive observation on how I fall.
Principle of Communication
The principle of communication is a common aspect of the communication process, and it facilitates the skill to develop communication between individuals. People always seek clarifications from the information they seem to be interested in. Relatively, it is important to embrace the aspect of better communication between people to avoid making mistakes. In my experience, the concept is related in the sense that my friend asked me if I were okay after laughing. Since the fall was funny, my friend could not just embrace the fun aspect of the experiences but also needed to acquire clarification on how I felt. This would enable her to seek assistance if needed.
The principle explains why individuals protect themselves from anxiety associated with an overwhelming sense of rage that occurs in an individual. Relatively, in my experience, I had a friend who could laugh at me when I fell. The same person asked if I was okay with the aim of seeking help if I was not okay. In this sense that splitting defense mechanism enables an individual to accept the fact that another person might be right or wrong hence they live by the characteristics.
The concept of transference is a tendency of an individual transferring the intense feelings that they have experienced in a prior stage in life into a relationship with other people. The concept of transference appears in all forms of relationship. The instability of the relationship that people form is evident in the infatuations. There are rapid developments that occur in the relationships, hence the collapse and immediate binding are experienced. Relatively, in my knowledge, I felt sickened upon being laughter at by my friend as she found the falling funny. My relationship with her experienced aspect of collapsing, but immediately it was again developed when she asked if I was okay. This shows that the point communication between us would enable development t of the relationship.
Concepts of psychology help in the development of better understating of the relationship of the experiences that people have. In this relation, the interpersonal psychology gives an overview of how to associate people’s feelings to their reactions. Relatively, it is important to identify the concepts of interpersonal psychology to relate them to the experiences that people undergo.